’90 Day Fiancé’ Alum Leida Opens Up About Reconciliation With Stepdaughter: ‘We Are Family’

Leida Decided to Drop the Restraining Order

“The restraining order [was] never meant to be forever,” the 30-year-old exclusively revealed to In Touch. “I did that because I had to. I have nothing against Alari. It breaks my heart to see this family had to [be] this way, and I know that my husband, Eric, is really [caring] and he loves his kids. Then when I heard they’re both sincere and talk each other again, I’m thinking like, ‘[Why] should I continue this family feud?'”

No Hard Feelings

“At the same time, I heard from my husband that Alari has nothing against me either, so I think it [was] best to proceed to dismiss the restraining order,” Leida continued. “Especially [since] Alari and I shared the same hobbies like crafting, cosplay, and art, so it’s so unfortunate if we can’t support each other as a family. We are family, whether you like it or not, we are, somehow related. So, that’s also the reason why I just decided to drop it.”

An Olive Branch

As for Alari, she recalled the moment Leida extended a warm gesture toward her on social media. Since the restraining order did not prohibit Leida from posting about Alari, she reposted a link for fans to vote for her stepdaughter in a cosplay wig contest.

Just a Little Wary

Alari admitted it was hard for her at first to let Leida back into her life, but she’s ultimately glad she decided to create a bond with her stepmother through their shared interested in cosplay.

“The 90 Day drama aside, I’ve been going through a lot and things have been stupid hard for me lately. So allowing anybody new in my life, whether or not I’ve known them in the past, has been a trip,” Alari explained. “A middle school friend recently reached out to me, and though we were great friends then, with my paranoia I’m having a hard time trusting them. Cosplay has helped, but this isn’t anything I’ve planned on stopping, despite the many people trying to get me to. The family support is nice though.”

Coming Together

The first cosplay project Alari and Leida worked on together was for an Astrid costume for Alari’s little sister, Jennica. But since this was before the restraining order was officially dropped, they had to enlist Eric’s help to communicate.

“While both Alari and I were working on the costume separately because we’re not allowed to make contact to each other, I was also at the same time, [in the process of getting] my lawyer to prepare all the paperwork and send it to the court and wait for the judge to sign it,” Leida said. “So at that time while we’re both working on that, my husband Eric was our middle guy, or the messenger of both Alari and I.”

Shared Interests

“We shared the same hobbies, talents, interests, so it’s not hard at all,” Leida said about bonding with Alari. “And yes, shared interest of cosplay helps a lot. Also, Alari has an amazing talent, also she needs more guidance, more support from the family, and more great resources. We just need to keep supporting each other, since we’re family.”

Big Moves

One of the first big collaborations between Leida and Alari was their panels at the Wizard World Comic Con in Madison, Wisconsin last month. During one panel, they both shared their tips for fans on how to cosplay on a budget.

Family Collab

“It was great. It was amazing, we actually had people came into our first panel together, and Alari gave the best presentation ever that I would’ve never imagine,” Leida said.

Supportive Stepmom

“And yes, I will always help and keep supporting not only Alari but for all the kids, [including] her sisters and my own son, to improve their talents,” she added.

Huge Success

“My first panels went well. I was in drama club and forensics in high school and have always enjoyed giving speeches and presentations, so panel working is no problem for me and I don’t mind doing them with her or any other person,” Alari said.

Aspirations

“I have plans of launching my own panel series starting next year, and though most will be solo, there are a few I’ll be dueting with other cosplayers,” she continued.

Quality Time

Since the restraining order was dropped, Alari and Leida have also spent time together outside of cosplay.

Family Dinner

On October 24, Alari shared a photo of her with Leida and her dad while out for dinner with a fellow social media star. “Had dinner with Terrance Pop from YouTube!! Love this guy’s videos and it was a pleasure to meet him!! Rumor has it this won’t be the only time … 😏,” she captioned the picture.

Good Vibes

It’s nice to see Leida and Alari getting along so well, and just in time for the holidays.

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